What Are the Top Ten Things that turn Men Off about Women?

1) “Stank” Attitudes ~ Men don’t find women who come across as snotty or uppity, attractive. Most men also included women who are vain, loud and obnoxious in this category.

2) Insecurity ~ Women with jealous tendencies. Women who have a habit of using underhanded tactics to try and make their partners jealous.

3) Low self-esteem ~ Men do not want women who lack confidence. If a woman has self-esteem issues, he fears he will spend much unnecessary time reassuring her.

4) Immaturity ~ Women who resort to petty tactics to get what they want.

5) Selfishness ~ Women who expects her man to do everything for her yet she refuses to contribute anything.

6) Dishonesty ~ Lying is not sexy or necessary.

7) Materialistic ~ Women who are more impressed by what he drives, how big his rims are, and how much money he makes than she is with who he really is.

8) Argumentative ~ Women who can (and will) argue about anything.

9) Clingy & Dependent ~ Men do not enjoy the company of women who have no life of their own. Having other interest is what keeps a man interested in a woman. Men love women who are intelligent, independent and able to hold her own.

10) Talking too much about her ex’s ~ Men do not want to hear about your past relationships. He does not like to feel that he’s being compared to someone from your past.

Also included were:

• Women who show no interest in sexual intercourse and just “lay there” during the act of intercourse.
• Facial hair ~ Women who have more hair on her face than he does on his, is a definite turn off!
• Body odor ~ if he can’t get up close and personal with it, he doesn’t want it!
• Women who smoke ~ there is nothing less attractive than a woman with a cigarette hanging from her lips . . . except a woman who is sloppy drunk!
• Women who use profanity (included in #1)



***Surveys taken from men aged 24-60. ***

The story behind "Men Talk Too!"

I decided to create this blog as a result of a question that I'm asked almost daily!

"Why do you only cater to women and their problems? Men have problems too!"

This question that I'm asked so frequently, got me to thinking...

I receive a tremendous amount of emails daily from men who want answers, advice, support, encouragement and sometimes they just want to vent! Sometimes they just want a place where they can tell women "This is what I want from you!"

So I decided to create that place!

"Men Talk Too!"

I decided to use this blog as a forum for men to express themselves. To discuss issues that they feel are important. Through this site, I hope to edcuate women on what men really want by encouraging them to listen to what men have to say!

**Please note that this blog site is still under construction**

What could make a woman cheat on a "good" man?"

Infidelity is one of the major causes of divorce and relationship problems.

Women are quick to talk about how some man has done them wrong, yet we all know that some women cheat just as much as men and are even known to be better at it than men.

I always say that table game dealers are like bartenders, people come gamble, drink and tell you their life story!

I had a conversation with a man (who happened to be playing at my game the other day) who was distraught because he had just recently found out that his wife was cheating. He claims that during their nineteen years of marriage he has given her everything yet she felt the need to go out and get a boyfriend. (She's 45 and the boyfriend is 29)

He said that he came to Biloxi to get away and think about what his next step should be. When I told him that I am an author who writes about relationships, he wanted to tell me his story.

He is a very successful architect who has his business in Miami. He and his wife have two children together, ages 16 and 18. He said he's always been a loving husband and father who believes that family comes first before anything. He has always given his wife and family the best of everything . . . nice homes (a few of which he designed). Exotic/romantic vacations (two, sometimes three times a year) a new vehicle every other year, and she has access to all of his money.

He has been a loyal faithful husband to his wife since the day they were married, so he's not sure where he went wrong.

I can proudly say that I've never cheated on any man in my life, so I'm not sure what would make a woman cheat on a good man. So I want to ask you . . .

What could make a woman cheat on a good man? When I refer to a good man, I mean a wonderful husband, father and provider. A man who makes sure that all your needs are met so that you won't want for anything.

Okay ladies, some of you have done it, so be honest. What made you cheat on a good man?

And men, I know some of you good men have been cheated on as well, so let us know what happened and what excuse did that cheating woman have for doing it! (lol)

Originally posted to www.myspace.com/glendawallace